Make Your Ex Return Your Call- The Secret

If you have an ex you would like to get back, you know your chances of doing so are pretty slim if they won’t return your phone calls. How to get an ex to return calls is one of the questions asked over and over by those who want to put a relationship back together.
Good news! There is a secret to make your ex return your call.
You may have wished there were ‘magic words’ to get your ex to return your calls. Well there are words that will almost seem like cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to call you.

BUT...

WARNING!

In the Magic Of Making Up, a complete strategy is laid out.

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If you use this technique alone, without an overall plan or strategy, you may do more to push your ex away than get them back.
Let’s look at what message almost never works and puts you in an awful psychological position.

These usually fall into 2 categories: the plead and the emergency.
1- The plead message goes something like this: “Bill, please, please call me. I must to talk to you. Please return this call.”

2- The emergency is trying to make it seem as if there is something that only your ex can handle. The emergency message goes something like this: Susie, this is an emergency. Please call me the second you get this.

Your begging and crying “wolf” won’t get an ex to return your calls. But you can use two of the most powerful forces of human nature-curiosity and self-interest to your advantage.
And here's the BIG SECRET! Each is powerful on its own but when you combine them they will work MAGIC!
Using curiosity and self- interest this is what you can say that will work almost EVERY TIME:
Using the most pleasant tone:
“Hi, Bill. It’s Susie. Just want to let you know how much I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”

Do you see how Susie’s call uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

Bill will NOT be able to resist returning her call! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It can be any small thing...but needs to be something that would be plausible for that person.

But more importantly...

2nd WARNING!

Please have an underlying strategy like is laid out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you make the call.

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If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back, you can do more
DAMAGE than good, if you do not handle it correctly.



What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

To get an ex to return your calls you need to have a plan and work the plan.
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